
We are Tania and Gaetano, two expats who moved our families to Spain for new adventures. We both moved here from the US, Tania (originally from the UK) in 2020, with her husband and daughter from Northern Virginia, and Gaetano in 2023 with his two daughters from Los Angeles. We all met in Valencia and got along incredibly well, but while we cracked each other up discussing our fun times adjusting to Spain, there were quite a few eye-rolls from our girls (tweens and teenagers anyone!). In an effort to give our daughters a little break we thought what the heck, let’s share our experiences with unsuspecting strangers instead. This podcast came to life and we hope you enjoy the pitfalls and joys of our experiences - we all have!
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Welcome to Aspain Poco Poco. Welcome.
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Today we're going to talk about flamnco,
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which is very exciting. The beautiful
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art of the Spanish dancing and other
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elements. So, lots of elements. Lots of
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elements. So, let's get going. Where do
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you want to start? Well, I guess we
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should start talking about some of the
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history that um people may not know. And
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I know I didn't know two days ago. So, I
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did not either. So good place to stop.
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Go ahead. Yeah. Yeah. Just so you know,
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audience, we are doing our research to
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provide um more factualbased information
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for you and it's it's fascinating
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really. We're learning. It really is. Um
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well, what I have learned is that which
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I did not know is that it it it some I
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mean they they say it it can uh trace
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its um history origins history back to
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the 15th century in Anducia. Um, which I
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know in Spain they talk about that andia
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is where you want to go if you want to
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see the real flamco, right? That's like
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the region of flamnco. And that's why
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that's why makes sense. It does make
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sense. Um so back in back in that back
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in that era in in this in the Anderysia
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area the people living there was we had
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you know the Spanish and the Moors and
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the gypsies and the Jewish and the
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Christians and all of that mix was um
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something that brought together the the
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origins of the flamco dancing um which I
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think is really interesting. It's a big
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mix of different cultures and at that
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particular moment was the Spanish
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Inquisition. So there was a lot of
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turmoil in that area and the Moors were
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being pushed out. So including in the
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amount of cultures that were that were
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there was this spirit of sort of
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desperation, struggle, hope and pride
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and of course probably still at that
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time the the desire for sort of a a
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party and a fiesta needed in in
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conjunction with all of that. So I think
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it's a very interesting origin story
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which is probably the origin story of a
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lot of different musical from different
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countries but that's what was happening
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here and that is the origin of flamco. I
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mean music is a release from pain right
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that's why we we go to concerts is is to
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escape from our life and then when you
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listen to you know the soul music and
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this is this is very much the soul music
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of Spain right this is absolutely people
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singing about their pain whether it's
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it's the the farm owner or the
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government or the in invaders or whoever
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is controlling people's lives it really
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comes out in this and um I don't know
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about you but I was I was lucky enough
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to have seen a flamingco show and you
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really do see that they really emote
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this huge amount of pain and passion
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when they sing. It's it is it must be
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amazing. Yeah, I've seen I' I've seen
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Flamingo, but I haven't gone to a show
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like you have. So, I think that is
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something that I would love to do. Um I
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think because it is it is an experience,
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isn't it? Yes, it is. It really is. And
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I think so originally flamco or whatever
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they were calling it then was was just
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singing unaccompanied by anything and
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then it emerged with um guitar and then
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rhythmic clapping feet stomping and the
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dancing and the and just the the
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exuberance of it. So it was a
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progression as well, the flourish and
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flare because I mean the dancing, it's
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about the ruffles flying and the turning
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and the stomping, right? And the and the
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banging of the guitar as well, right?
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Not just the strumming, but the hitting
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of the guitar. Lots of noise.
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Absolutely. Yeah. So I think that's
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something that I mean some of that might
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have it just the progression of it just
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got maybe more and more exciting as time
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went on. Um and then so what about the
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the name Flamco? So that we're not 100%
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sure where that's coming from, but you
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found an interesting one. We one I'm
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going to go with and you found a
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different one, so I'll tell mine, which
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I think is is so much more romantic. I
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like yours better, but we will give you
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both just to cover our bases. Exactly.
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And um so so one of the theories
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suggests that the the name is of of
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Arabic origin which you know the Moors
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were still here and and and being um
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uh what's what's the word for?
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Excommunicated out of Spain, being
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removed from Spain, right? Yes. Um but
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the uh they think it's taken from the
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words mangul which means peasant in
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flight or fugitive peasant which I think
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is so beautiful to think as we were
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talking about music being an escape that
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there's this peasant taking flight out
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of their pain. I think that one makes so
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much more sense than the other one which
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is that it comes from the Flemish word
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flamande which at the time it was a
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Flemish kingdom of of Carlos I here in
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in that part of Spain. So there was a
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Flemish element to that and Flamande
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obviously sounds a lot more like flamco
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but I do still prefer your description
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that you found because I think it just
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it does explain the elements of flamco
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that that we've already sort of touched
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on I think which I like and right and
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when I think of the Flemish I don't
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think of heart pounding stomping music
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so I'm
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so collectively here at our Spain praa
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we're going with the the Uh the Arabic
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peasant peasant in flight one.
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Peasant in flight. I love it.
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Absolutely. Yeah. So in flamco there are
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different music styles called palos
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which loosely translates as branches
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like a tree. And there are over 50
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different styles of flamco which I'm not
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surprised. I don't know how they are
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connected and whether it's like you have
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one, you know, one song and dance that's
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one and one another or whether that's
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they're all mixed into to one.
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Yeah, I have no idea. But it or if we go
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to different regions it's completely
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different or if a different town. I
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don't know. I've only seen one show. So
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yeah, and that would also make sense.
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The regions obviously I mean that
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they're going to vary. So that would
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totally make sense if there were
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different styles based on the regions I
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think as well.
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Um, I mean it's a very it's a very
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complicated and elaborate art form. So I
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think it's it would make sense that it
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varies and maybe some of those things in
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certain places come together, right, as
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well to create a new art form, a new or
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new style or right
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and there's like four elements too like
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the performance, right? So there's the
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the kee which is the singing and the tok
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toku I don't know how you pronounce it.
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you you're better to I think it's to
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that's the actual flamco guitar playing
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and then you have the ba which is the
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dance and my favorite word out of this
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re this research which is halo which
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which means which basically means hell
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raising and oh that's so appropriate I
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love it that's a great word halo
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that is definitely the the feeling and
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the of of the flamco I think is it it's
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all coming down to even though The helo
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is like just one element. That is
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probably the element that is bringing
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all of them together. Don't you think?
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All of them. Yes, I think so. Because
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there is I mean there's screaming and
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the scream and I and I mean this in a
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nice way. It's like moaning this singing
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the pain that's coming out the passion
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you know. So it's you know you you feel
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like they're in hell. They're they're
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expressing their hell. They're
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hellraising. Yep. And you got the foot
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stomping and the clapping and then you
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got the olay. So the you just the whole
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like getting I mean and when you're in
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the environment with with a performance
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is it one of those things where the
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audience is also sort of getting in on
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it or is it you just watching? Well, you
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know this is was my experience. you
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could tell who the tourists were and the
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people who go regularly because the
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people who went regularly were much more
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involved and cheering much more and they
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were feeling the passion more where I
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went a year ago only had lived here you
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know not even quite a year yet when we
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went and so we were the we were the
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tourists taking it all in you know so so
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it probably depends on where you see it
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I would imagine if you're in the
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environment and it's in your town and
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it's in your town square and it's all
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the people that are there I would
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imagine there's a much more included
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kind kind of environment of the whole
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thing probably right I mean and where I
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went I mean there was tourists but it
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wasn't like a tourist um spot I would
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say I mean there was definitely people
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that were there for the art form and you
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could see there were other musicians in
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the audience that might perform in other
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places there there was a lot of support
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going on that I saw which was really
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nice too you know people supporting
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other musicians and that and and when
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they're on stage like all the musicians
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are on stage at the place that I went
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even if they're not performing So it was
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kind of like this and they get up when
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they're performing and they sit down
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when they're not. So that it was very
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supportive environment. I like that. I'm
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always really uncomfortable when I go
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see a band play that's like very um
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energetic and everyone's just sitting in
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their seats. I find it incredibly
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uncomfortable because you feel like you
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should be mirroring the energy of the
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person performing, right? But if that's
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not the environment of the crowd, it
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gets to me it gets very uncomfortable.
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So right you would want to get up and be
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like you know hell race right a little
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with them. Yeah people weren't getting
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up but there was the people who you
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could tell their applause and their and
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there were people shouting the olay and
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in you know expressing themselves in the
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audience but it was like being at a rock
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concert where there up in the air with
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lighting your lighters that no one does
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anymore. Right. So if you go and see
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Flamco get on board bring your energy
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with you. Yeah. So speaking of energy I
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think this is quite fun. the um the
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polka dots on the flamco dresses and we
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if you've never seen a flamco dance in
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person, you've definitely seen the
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dresses. Right. Right. And they're just
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gorgeous. Like you said, flowing and
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whooing and they and they've got the
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polka dots which is actually comes from
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a um like a back in the day they would
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sew little circular mirrors on their
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dresses to ward off bad spirits. And who
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was this was the Roma? The Romans, also
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known as the gypsies, right? Back in
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back in the day. Mhm. long long time
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ago. So, initially when they were doing
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these dances, they had these mirrors um
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you know on the dresses and I think
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that's really pretty. And I don't know
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when that changed, but that kind of like
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merged into just like let's just let's
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just print the dots on the on the
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dresses. Probably a seamstress was sick
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of getting cut by glass probably. And
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also maybe there aren't any bad spirits
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anymore. Maybe we're all good. We don't
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need to worry about that. So, we'll just
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make it pretty. So, and they are pretty.
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They are. They're very pretty. with the
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the fringe and the shawls. It's you it's
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like that kind of whole romantic image.
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You kind of think of Spain, those wood
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the flamingo dancers, right? And then
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and then they they have these shoes
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which you know they're like dance shoes.
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You don't think much of them, but what I
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found out is they're the the wooden
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heels actually have nails in them. So
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that's what's giving the sound. It's not
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like a tap shoe. It's not just I thought
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it would be just like they put metal
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like a tap shoe like they just put metal
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on the bottom of the shoe to make it
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give that sound but they've actually
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they're actually nails in. They have
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nails in them and you know I have a
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daughter in dance. I've had daughters in
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dance for years and tap shoes give more
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of a click. They wouldn't give you that
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stomp. So I mean that would make sense
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that I mean so it's a different sound
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you're getting when you put the nails
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in. That's like you said more of a stomp
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than a than a more of a high-pitched tap
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click. Tap click. Yeah. Yeah. And
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they're still doing it that way, which I
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think is really cool. That is very cool.
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Yeah, I like that. Um, and the first
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time that Flamco was mentioned in
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literature was in 1774
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in a book by Joseé Cadalso called Cartas
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Maruas.
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Do you want me to say it with my Spanish
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accent? Go for it. Needs it. Cartis
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Marukas by Joseo
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Marquez. There you go. Cartis Marquez by
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Jose Cadoso.
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Unfortunately, because my husband is is
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Moroccan, I've had to learn that word in
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Spanish and it is the I'm like, could
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you just be from somewhere else? Because
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this is the hardest word. Like there's
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just certain words that are really hard
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to get your tongue around and Morocco is
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one of those. So yes, I will also say
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American is too like to say you're
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you're American is estados
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unense, right? Like it's the to say
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you're Americanos. No, that's Oh, that's
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America. Okay. United States. Okay.
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We'll just say Americano. Isn't that
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easier? You got options. No, you don't
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say that here. No, but you can.
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Yeah, that's a different That's a
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different punko pogo. Let's stay on
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track.
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We'll get back to that. Clearly, we have
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to have that discussion. Um, anyway, I
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think that Are there any other facts we
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have from the flamco? I think that sort
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of Well, when you go to a a flamco show,
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they're performed in a place called the
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tableau, and the tableau also means the
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stage, which is wood. Obviously, you
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need to be wood to get this. And I went
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to a place called Palos Santo Tableau,
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so that means rosewood. So, I'm hoping
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the stage was made out of rosewood. It
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wasn't some misnomer, but that's but
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yeah, that's they're all tableau and the
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more proper that was a proper stage and
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a proper performance. It's a proper
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performance venue. It was in the cabin
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district in this kind of like
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four-walled space. Um it had a little
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bar and stuff like some of them will
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have like you know a dinner show, but
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that tends to be I think more touristy.
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This one just had like a bar and you
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could get some uh like you know popcorn
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chips and hams and cheeses. Go figure.
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Ham and queso. Ham and queso and and
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watch the show, but it wasn't like a
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meal show, right? It was like you can
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get some snacks and really enjoy it.
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And I will say that, you know, later,
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you know, this summer I'm taking the the
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girls down to Endolucia in the end of
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July. So, we may go see a flamingco show
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there. And if I if so, I will maybe be
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able to report on a difference if I
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noticed one. You know, I'm not Yeah,
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perfect. different. And who knows, it
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might be a regional thing or you might
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just have gone to see a different um a
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different version um a different palace
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in a different area that also is here.
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Like so we still won't be none the wiser
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really until we see a lot of them. So
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there's there's a goal.
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So yeah, our goal is to see lots and
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lots and lots of more flamco so that we
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can get more more educated in it. more
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educated and and and lots more of Spain
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so we can become more in in sconced in
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the life here. Perfect. Well, I think
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that's our little poker poco on flamco.
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I hope you enjoyed it. Hope you did.
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