
We are Tania and Gaetano, two expats who moved our families to Spain for new adventures. We both moved here from the US, Tania (originally from the UK) in 2020, with her husband and daughter from Northern Virginia, and Gaetano in 2023 with his two daughters from Los Angeles. We all met in Valencia and got along incredibly well, but while we cracked each other up discussing our fun times adjusting to Spain, there were quite a few eye-rolls from our girls (tweens and teenagers anyone!). In an effort to give our daughters a little break we thought what the heck, let’s share our experiences with unsuspecting strangers instead. This podcast came to life and we hope you enjoy the pitfalls and joys of our experiences - we all have!
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Welcome to Aspain Poco Poco. Hi Tanya.
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Hi. Buenos das. Your espanol is mu
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bueno. Bueno. Thank you. Today we're
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going to talk about um the no de San
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Juan which is a festival here in
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Valencia. And I just want to say just in
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case you hadn't had enough fire in Fias,
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we have more.
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We have more.
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They love to burn things in Valencia. I
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feel like, you know, we do laugh. We've
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said this before that the city gets the
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greenest city of Europe award like time
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and time again. And we are wondering how
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that happens since we are covered in so
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many a day.
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Especially in the city, right?
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Especially in the city. But yes, so the
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uh evening of this, so it was last
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night, the um the evening of June 23rd.
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So today the 24th is um if you're
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listening to this, we are recording this
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on the 24th actually. So the day of the
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24th is the day is the feast of San Juan
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or St. John the Baptist, but on the
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evening before it's a big party here on
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the beach and they have bonfires and
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everything and this so this started with
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like you know that it has roots you know
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in ancient timey things, pagan things
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like midsummer rituals, you know the
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summer solstice, all of that. So they
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use this fire to purify and protect and
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renew. It's all about rebirth. They love
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a fire here about getting rid of the old
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and welcoming the new kind of stuff year
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round. Year round and they love it. So
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this is on the longest day of the year
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and so that's why it combines and it was
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supposed to theoretically it was his
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birthday San Juan's birthday. So these
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two things kind of came together and
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basically also later on it was it was
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adopted by the by the Christian aligned
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with the Christian tradition of just
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commemorating um his birth. So it's kind
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of the two things together and they've
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kind of melded now to just one big old
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festival as far as I can see with fire
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and bonfires on the beach. Lots of
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bonfires. I mean I don't know in the
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city hundreds of thousands of people are
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at the beach. Um, you go to like the the
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Malvarosa, La Aceras, beaches, Patakona,
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just thousands of people everywhere and
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bonfires everywhere. And what is so
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crazy is that the city provides the
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firework. Now, you have to get in line
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and because people first come, first
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serve, but the city is providing this
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fireworks. Firework firewood. This
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firewood, that's the word. Not
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fireworks. I confuse the two because
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it's always fireworks here. That's true.
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So, what happens? I mean, is do they
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just dump like a pile of wood in one
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place and everyone can just take what
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they want or are they just like dumping
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it in various places? Like how does that
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actually There's like the trucks come
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and you line up and get it from the
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trucks and then the trucks take off.
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That's really nice. So the idea is that
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everybody on this evening um is coming
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down to the beach and it's specifically
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you will not fire you will not find in
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this scenario bonfires happening in the
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city. This is a very specifically a
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beach thing. Um right. It's not in the
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orange groves. No,
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we went out. It was very sweet. We went
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out with some friends um in like 2021
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when that no it was still very coy and
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so we had a very min my experience has
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been a very miniature San Juan holiday
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where we built this teeny tiny like
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little bonfire found built you know
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built with wood that the kids could find
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on the beach and we kind of lit it and
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managed to get a tiny fire and you know
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what you're supposed to do is you're
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supposed to jump over the flames and
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that is supposed to purify your soul and
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cleanse you from bad luck and bring you
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good fortune in in the coming year. So,
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I guess it doesn't matter how big this
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fire is, but ours might have been a bit
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safer than what you've seen. Oh, yeah. I
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mean, and it has to be an odd number.
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So, like seven, nine times. It's you
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don't want to jump over twice. That's
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bad luck. So, it's got to be an odd
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number of times. This is very good to
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know.
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You don't want to make this mistake.
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And what's crazy, and we've talked about
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this before, but the lack of parental
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supervision in Valencia or in Spain is
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is refreshing and yet scary at the same
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time because these parents are not
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looking and kids are just jumping over
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these fires like crazy. And you're like,
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is this cool? And and it gets really
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smoky at the beach, by the way. And so I
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would imagine cuz no, it's not like
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everyone's jumping over one bonfire.
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Like every group of people is building
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their own bonfire. Correct. So it's a
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lot. Yes. There's Yeah. And there are
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areas where there's not supposed to be
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like there's areas where there can be
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bonfires and areas where they're not.
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But the smoke is so intense that you
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smell I mean we still smell from it. It
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is pretty intense. The I've taken two
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showers and the little hair I have still
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reeks of of burnt wood. That is the
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worst how it gets in your hair. I think.
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Yeah. And what's also important is not
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just the jumping over the flames. It's
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it's the jumping over the waves. So you
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want to jump at midnight jumping over
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the seven waves as a purification,
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right? And and people will wash their
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face or just dangle their feet, but you
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want to get wet at that time as well.
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And um what I thought was really
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interesting too is that people will
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write down their grievances and wishes
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and things like that and throw those
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into the fire. So it's like letting go
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of all these hang-ups. Yeah. And I want
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to also mention, you know, typical in
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Spain, this is happening at midnight.
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This is not happening at 6:00 in the
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afternoon. Okay. So, if you're going to
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go out to this, I think we talked about
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you were talk you were talking about
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going out at like 11 so that you didn't
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have to be out all night and then coming
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back after midnight so that you were
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sort of out for a couple of hours rather
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than I mean people will go out early and
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they'll eat and they'll have you know
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the communal dining at the beach
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bringing everything to the beach and and
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having their tinto verano and and all
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these delicious things at the beach and
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then at midnight you have to wait till
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midnight to do all these rituals. Yeah.
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That's Yeah, that's where the good luck
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happens. If you leave before you're out
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of luck. So, yes. And then people stay
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until 4:00 and then at 4:00 the city
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comes in and cleans it up. So, you have
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to get off the beach. But people are out
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there all night. I mean, it's insane.
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And I'm not that young to do that. And
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then, of course, some of these other
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parents have shamed me in the past
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saying that, oh, well, we were here
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until 5. We watched the sunrise. What
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about you? Oh, lovely. Well, no, I would
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I my eyes were burning out of my head. I
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had to leave. Definitely with the smoke.
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But also I will say there just overall
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we love to go to the beach later in the
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evening you know I mean it's light till
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very late already at this point we've
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already had a heat wave this year like
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it's been really really hot the time to
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be at the beach is midnight so so there
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is something to be said for having a
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having a party and a festival and I in
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these types of scenarios the atmosphere
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at the beach is just it's electric right
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and it's really really fun it really is,
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you know, and I will say, you know, as a
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side note, like to agree with you that
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that beach culture thing is when our
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first summer here, we went to the beach
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a lot and we went during the day because
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the beach is about sun and water. And as
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we're like getting on and to the bus
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back into town, thousands of people are
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just getting off the buses cuz that's
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when they're coming to the beach. Like
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I've never lived in a place where the
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beach is almost like feels like it's a
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24-hour culture without being Miami,
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right? Without it being this crazy
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place. No, this is literally just this
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is literally just coming to the beach to
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go in the water and hang out and maybe
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have your dinner and have your picnic,
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but having it at 600 7 8:00 at night
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instead is actually just a delightful
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time to have it. So, I can see how this
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can kind of move on till till midnight.
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And again, as we've talked about in Fias
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and other festivities that happen in
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Spain, especially around here, the
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experience of how quickly they clean up
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this stuff is amazing. I mean, truly,
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like it is a work of art how quickly
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stuff gets cleaned here. It's shocking.
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It's like it's never happened at all.
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And what's really great like during FIS
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during this holiday because it's such a
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big one that the public transport like
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the buses are running 24 hours, too. So
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you if you're still there at 3 in the
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morning, you're getting home. Don't have
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to worry. Oh, that's a good point. Yeah.
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So you can actually get back at all
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times. Um and they add extra buses. So
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it's they're crowded, but you're not
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like dying. They're running them a lot.
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You may not know this, but do the buses
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usually stop at a certain time at night
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if you're going back and forth to the
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beach? Do you think they do? I don't
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know the exact hours cuz I'm, you know,
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like you a parent. It's not like I have
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a late night social life on a Tuesday.
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And I know the further the buses go, the
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earlier they shut down, just like the
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subways, right? So the subways in the
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city go a little bit longer. But if you
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have to get to Bettora, these other
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cities, they're not going that they're
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not doing that till 10:30 at night or 11
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o'clock at night. Yeah. And I will say
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they're doing this all over the beaches
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everywhere. It's not just around the
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city. This is a a big festival and on
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the beaches outside where we live like
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Bthal and El Poo and stuff, there's
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people doing this there, too. So, you
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may not have the number of people you
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have at the city beaches, but it is
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definitely a festival that's going on
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all up and down the coast here. So, it's
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worth a trip for that, I think.
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Wonderful. It is worth the trip. Well,
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it's worth moving to Spain for it, I
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think. Oh, it's worth moving to Spain.
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coming for I mean obviously but anyway
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