
We are Tania and Gaetano, two expats who moved our families to Spain for new adventures. We both moved here from the US, Tania (originally from the UK) in 2020, with her husband and daughter from Northern Virginia, and Gaetano in 2023 with his two daughters from Los Angeles.
We all met in Valencia and got along incredibly well, but while we cracked each other up discussing our fun times adjusting to Spain, there were quite a few eye-rolls from our girls (tweens and teenagers anyone!). In an effort to give our daughters a little break we thought what the heck, let’s share our experiences with unsuspecting strangers instead. This podcast came to life and we hope you enjoy the pitfalls and joys of our experiences - we all have!
We are Tania and Gaetano, two expats who moved our families to Spain for new adventures. We both moved here from the US, Tania (originally from the UK) in 2020, with her husband and daughter from Northern Virginia, and Gaetano in 2023 with his two daughters from Los Angeles.
We all met in Valencia and got along incredibly well, but while we cracked each other up discussing our fun times adjusting to Spain, there were quite a few eye-rolls from our girls (tweens and teenagers anyone!). In an effort to give our daughters a little break we thought what the heck, let’s share our experiences with unsuspecting strangers instead. This podcast came to life and we hope you enjoy the pitfalls and joys of our experiences - we all have!
Episodes

Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
What We Wish We Knew Before We Moved
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
In this candid episode we explore the real-life surprises and lessons we've learned since making the move to Spain. From our feline companions (old and new) adjusting to a new life abroad to our own struggles with picking up the language (spoiler: it’s harder than we thought), we’re sharing the things we wish someone had told us before we packed our bags.
We talk about the subtle art of distinguishing yourself as a resident, not a tourist, and why WhatsApp groups are an unexpected lifeline in your new community. We also reflect on the challenges of staying connected with friends and family across time zones, the importance of embracing what’s available locally instead of longing for what you left behind, and yes — the hunt for a decent selection of English books.
Whether you’re considering a move, already here, or just curious about expat life, this episode is full of insights, laughs, and a few “we had no idea” moments.

Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Poco A Poco: The Turia Garden
Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Thursday Jun 12, 2025
In this Poco A Poco episode, we’re talking about Valencia’s Turia Garden—once an unpredictable, wandering riverbed, now a lush 9-kilometer park that snakes through the heart of the city. Along the way, you’ll pass playgrounds, bike paths, shady palms, the City of Arts and Sciences, the Palau de la Música, and even a giant Gulliver you can climb on. Discover how a devastating flood led to a bold transformation, and why locals still affectionately call it “the river.” It’s a story of resilience, reinvention, and a little Valencian pride.

Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Introducing Poco A Poco
Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Welcome to Poco A Poco. In these bite-sized episodes of Ah... Spain!, we explore fascinating cultural, historical, and everyday insights about Spain—one small piece at a time. Perfect for curious minds and fans of our longer deep-dive episodes on life in Spain, Poco A Poco helps you discover Spain, poco a poco (little by little).

Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
How We Live... Mountains Versus City
Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
Tuesday Jun 10, 2025
Today we discuss one of the most asked questions for expats and locals alike: Is it better to live in the city of Valencia or in a nearby mountain town like Náquera? Join Gaetano, who lives with his family in the heart of Valencia, and Tania, raising her family in the tranquil mountain town of Náquera, as they compare two very different versions of life in Spain.
From the convenience of city living—walkable neighborhoods, schools, and nightlife—to the peace and beauty of the countryside, with larger homes, private pools, and stunning views, we weigh the pros and cons of each lifestyle.
Whether you're planning a move to Valencia, considering real estate options, or just daydreaming about Spanish life, this episode offers real insights into what it's actually like to live in these two contrasting but beautiful places.

Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
How Spain Does Drinks
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
We dive into the bold, flavorful world of Spanish beverages. From the daily rituals of Spanish coffee culture to the party-ready cocktails that define summer in Spain, this episode is a fun, honest, and slightly boozy tour through how Spain really does drinks. We explore the fiery and popular Valencian cremaet, compare café solo, cortado, and other local coffee favorites, and unpack the difference between Tinto de Verano and sangria (spoiler: we have opinions). We also get into Agua de Valencia—a sparkling citrus cocktail that’s as strong as it is celebratory—and laugh over the surprising bebidas we've encountered since moving here. Whether you're planning a trip, living the expat life, or just dreaming of sipping something cold under the Spanish sun, this episode offers a flavorful look at how drinks reflect the heart of Spanish culture, especially here in Valencia.

Tuesday May 27, 2025
How We Make Lemonade Out Of Pitfalls & Pratfalls
Tuesday May 27, 2025
Tuesday May 27, 2025
Lucky episode #13! We dive headfirst into our most memorable pitfalls that we experienced as expats in Valencia, Spain. We share our personal stories of navigating unexpected challenges—from missing trains and dealing with flooded apartments to getting lost down the city’s enchanting labyrinth of streets.
Join us as we share stories of how funny setbacks and a dash of resilience have turned these hurdles into unforgettable memories. Whether you're dreaming of relocating to Spain, already knee-deep in expat life, or just curious about the Mediterranean lifestyle, you’ll find plenty of inspiration and laughs in our tales. Tune in and let the good (and bad) times roll!

Tuesday May 20, 2025
How Spain Puts A Smile On Our Faces
Tuesday May 20, 2025
Tuesday May 20, 2025
Join us, Tania and Gaetano, as we share the everyday joys of expat life in Spain, especially in sunny Valencia. From friendly restaurant owners to free gift wrapping in stores, we explore why Spain’s warm culture feels like living on Sesame Street.
Hear about birthday party etiquette, beautiful neighborhoods, beach life, and why locals always greet you with a smile. Whether you're dreaming of moving to Spain or just love feel-good stories from Europe, this episode will lift your spirits.

Tuesday May 13, 2025
How We Mostly Talk About Tapas
Tuesday May 13, 2025
Tuesday May 13, 2025
Join us, expats Gaetano and Tania as we dive into our favorite tapas and what makes Spanish cuisine so irresistible. In this fun, food-filled episode, we chat about classic dishes like patatas bravas, sepia, tortilla española, and more, all from the perspective of living and eating in Spain. Perfect for foodies, travelers, and fellow expats in Spain!
